The mother of Harry Dunn said his family is “setting him free” as his ashes were scattered a month before the anniversary of his death.
Charlotte Charles and Tim Dunn said they decided to scatter Harry’s ashes in Portland Bill in Dorset on Wednesday.
The Dunns took their annual holidays in Dorset and their 19-year-old son spent his last day in his favourite town on July 29, last year.
A month later Harry died when a car driven by Anne Sacoolas collied with his motorbike near RAF Croughton in August 2019.
Mrs Sacoolas, who is the wife of a US intelligence official, claimed diplomatic immunity after the crash and was able to return to her home country.
Harry’s mother described Wednesday as “the hardest day we’ve ever had to face in our lives”.
Mrs Charles and Mr Dunn, alongside their partners Bruce and Tracey, met with other extended family members and friends in Weymouth before scattering Harry’s ashes in a private ceremony on the nearby island of Portland.
Mrs Charles said although they were “setting him free”, the “fighting will continue” to get US suspect Anne Sacoolas back to the UK.
Asked before the private ceremony if her son’s funeral provided any closure, Mrs Charles said: “No, and we were really numb back then – very much a bunch of zombies, to put it mildly.
“We don’t remember a lot about the first few weeks at all. Obviously we’ve been through so much since then – we’ve been to hell and back on many, many occasions.
“We’re not numb any more, we just hurt all day every day. The hurt is there constantly and it never, ever goes away.
“But now, 11 months on, today is going to be the hardest day we’ve ever had to face in our lives, and I can’t imagine it getting any harder.
“You shouldn’t have to scatter your own child’s ashes.”
Speaking briefly on behalf of the family afterwards, Mr Dunn said the private ceremony was “beautiful” – adding “there was a lot of crying, it was very special”.
Mr Dunn shared how visiting Weymouth became a tradition for the family.
“From a very early age, Tracey and I first came with Harry and Niall to Weymouth on our first family holiday back in 2002, and every year we would come back on the same week,” he told PA.
“It became a tradition, and as we know poor Harry died last year and today is exactly the last day he was here – he came for a night with his friends… so it’s a year to the day since he was last in Weymouth and we’re here to scatter his ashes and let him ride free.”
Mrs Charles added: “We can rest assured that he’s definitely out there riding the skies and going everywhere that he wants to go.
“We’ve found a beautiful spot where we are going to take him and we’re sure that the wind will carry his ashes and the waves will be splashing up on the rocks to help him travel too.
“So we’ll feel like we’ve set him free.”
Commenting on what is next for the family, Mrs Charles said: “Proper closure. Which is to make sure that Anne Sacoolas goes through the UK justice system. That has to happen.
“You and I would have had to have done it – in my view she is no different.
“So we will keep fighting – today is going to be extremely tough, but the determination never wavers, ever.
“It doesn’t matter what today takes out of us, tomorrow will be yet another day of fighting. Today is just for us but the fighting will continue.”
Asked if they had been able to properly grieve, Mrs Charles said: “I don’t think we’ve been able to grieve properly at all.
“Of course there are days that are really, really bad and you don’t want to see anyone and you just want to cry.
“There are days that are just so overwhelming that we haven’t had time to properly grieve. Today will help us along the way with that, for sure, but I still don’t think the proper grieving process will kick in until we have had justice done.
Additional reporting by PA Media.